Am I wasting my time??

It’s been 1 year plus working here. Frankly speaking.. I didn’t learn much, most of the things I’ve learned are kinda outdated and the coding here are worse than those written by my junior in the previous company. What else can I say.. I work for money, have to adept whether I like it or not. How I wish I have the guts to tender the resignation letter right away and start looking for other jobs. The risks are high.. that’s why I’m still here =( being employed is a must.. I’ll be in deep trouble if I’m jobless.. family, insurance, credit card debts, rental, monthly/daily expenses.. all depend on my salary. I’ve got friends who can stay unemployed for up to a year! I am just wondering how they can survive, kinda respect them. How nice if my first job is using other popular programming languages like java, c++ or VB then I don’t have to worry much about being jobless, but .. sigh.. UNIVERSE ?? Some people don’t even know what it is! So.. here I am.. stuck in this career of mine, well someone did think that I do well, but believe me.. you don’t want to be in my place. It’s like hopeless ^_^ God bless me~